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Stripped
Innocence abused
In
the background, there is the sordid world of prostitution, made up
of children and of wicked old men. |
A reflection by Brother Bernard Couvillion |
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In 1993 Pope John Paul II expressed “horror over the degrading practice of sex tourism.” The Senegal newspaper headlines upon my arrival there decried the number of European women tourists who come in search of teenage boys who cruise the strips of beach hotels. Our international novitiate at Nianing is located along one such resort beach. Sex
customers, fearful of aids,
are turning to younger and more innocent prey. As a result, the
prostitution of children has skyrocketed worldwide in recent years.
In Bogotá, the number of prostitutes under thirteen has quintupled
since 1987. “A whole generation of young girls and boys is being
turned into commerce by Westerners lured by governments hungry for
tourist dollars,” claims the international coordinator for a group
called End Child Prostitution. Most
parents who hand their children over don’t understand what kind of
“jobs” are being offered them. “At night, I sleep and cry. No
one ever sees my tears,” says one 13-year old. Some
girls feel so much pain that they block out the past and even forget
their parents’ names, according to Sister Michele, who runs a
therapy center for girl prostitutes. (El
Colombiano, September 16, 1996; The World & I, Feb.
1995) Sexual abuse of young people by trusted adults—relatives, teachers, brothers, and clergy—brings the hopelessness of sex abuse closer to home, as a recent report I read in a Rome newspaper shows: At 11, Carla’s parents confided her to a neighbor couple for after-school care. For a whole school year the husband subjected Carla to abuse, profiting from his wife’s frequent absence due to their handicapped daughter’s medical treatments. He began telephoning friends to join him and invited them to take their turn with her. Carla kept silent until she tried to throw herself off the balcony of her apartment. (Il Messaggero, July 7, 1996) |
We give voice to the prayer of sexually abused children |
Everything
is corrupt, depraved; not a good man is left. God looks down from
heaven on men to see if any are wise, if any seek God. All have left
the right path; depraved, everyone. There is not a good man left,
no, not even one. Will these evil-doers not understand? They are
destroying us. |